Monday, July 23, 2012

Gun Control Laws Don't Work - EVER

First and foremost, let me say right up front that the recent shootings in Aurora, Colorado are a tragedy, and my heart and prayers go out to the victims and their families.

If this latest shooting spree proves anything, it proves once again that background checks simply don't work, and that the current system is a farce. All of the weapons and ammunition used in the shooting were bought legally, and there's nothing that anyone or any system of registration or background checking could have done to prevent the sale. The reason behind this is simple - you can't tell if someone is nuts unless they've been diagnosed, and in this case the shooter has had ZERO mental issues in his background. Therefore, the system set in place by the Libtards and the Demoncrats in the sixties has failed once again to do what they said it was going to do - protect the American people from nuts like this.

So now Feinstein and the other Libtards and Demoncrats in Congress are calling for yet more useless gun control laws. These supposedly educated people are either too stupid or simply unwilling to recognize the simple fact that laws of this type will only affect law-abiding citizens, and that criminals will totally and completely ignore them. That's why they're called "CRIMINALS."

While it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure this one out, some members of Congress still just don't get it.

But let's take a look at the concept of laws in another way, shall we?

The common misconception that people seem to be laboring under is that a law will "protect" the public in some fashion or another, that the mere existence of a law will prevent the bad people in our society from doing what the law says they shouldn't do. While this theory is a nice one, that's all it is - a nice theory. The reality of it is that no law in the world is designed to "protect" you, nor can it since criminals don't obey the law.

Every society in every part of the world has what is considered an acceptable way of life, things that society says are okay to do and things that are not okay to do. The enacting of a law simply puts down on paper the official notice that the act that the law covers is not acceptable, and will not be tolerated by the society which enacts it. Once this law is enacted, the government - whichever government that may be - now has the legal right to punish those who break the law, and the law also sets what the punishment can be.

In short, laws are not designed to protect; rather, they're designed to punish.

And that's what gun control laws do, but instead of punishing the criminal they punish the law-abiding citizen. There are currently more than 25,000 "gun control" laws in existence in the United States, and yet we still have mass shootings going on. I fail to see how anyone with even the smallest shred of intelligence can think for even a millisecond that the passage of yet another law will in any way change things. But here's an idea: instead of passing new laws, why not simply enforce the ones we have?

Wow, what a novel concept!

At this point, I'm sure there are some folks out there who are saying to themselves, "Well, then, if gun control laws don't work then let's just ban guns altogether! That will surely solve the problem!"

Yeah, sure it will - just like making cocaine, meth, and heroin have solved the drug problem.

But all of this talk about laws and gun control doesn't even begin to address the real issue, the real cause of tragedies such as we witnessed this week. The real cause of this is the gradual moral breakdown of American society and the failure of parents to teach their children right from wrong. I mean, really, think about it: in the 1930's anyone of any age could walk into any general store and buy a handgun, no questions asked. You could also buy a fully-automatic machine gun from the Sears mail order catalogue, again with no questions asked. Guns were far more accessible then than they are now, yet there were no school shootings, no shootings in movie theaters, no drive-by shootings, nothing of that type at all. "Gun violence" as it is being called today simply didn't exist.

The reason for that is because the moral standard in our society was so much higher and so much better than it is now, that people just didn't do things like that. It was wrong, they knew it was wrong, so they didn't do it. Simply put, they had been taught better by their parents.

The real answer to the "gun violence" problem is not to pass more laws. The real answer is twofold: first, enforce the laws we have, and second, teach your children right from wrong.

That, my friends, is the answer.

IHC

Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Six Weeks Later

The day before Buster passed I was home for lunch and was doing my usual thing, carrying him down the stairs from the upstairs bedroom so he could go outside and do his thing. As I was walking down the stairs with him in my arms, I patted him on his side and said, "I don't know what I'm ever going to do without you, baby boy..."

And the next day he was gone.

Since that day I've been finding out just what I'd do without him, and I gotta tell ya that it's been a long, rough six weeks for both Gina and myself. The past two have been pretty good, but the first two were pure hell. It too me the better part of three weeks before I could talk about him and what happened without crying, and we won't even talk about the nights I cried myself to sleep. I know Gina was going through the same thing, feeling the same things I was, even though she wouldn't talk about it. That's just her way, to keep her feelings inside her and deal with it herself, but I knew she was hurting just as I was. We both loved Buster with all our hearts, and it broke both our hearts when he passed. We both knew it was inevitable and was a part of pet ownership, but we also knew that knowledge wouldn't make it any easier. And it didn't.

But a wise man once said that "all hurt heals," and this is no exception. Over the course of the past two or three weeks I've been thinking about all of the good times with Buster and all of the things he did that used to make me smile or laugh, and I've found myself thinking about those things more often that I found myself thinking about that last terrible, tragic morning. Buster brought a lot of joy and smiles into our lives, and he made us laugh more than I think we realized.

Even at 11 years old, Buster was still a puppy at heart. For no apparent reason he'd jump down off of the couch and roll around on the floor, paws in the air, snorting all the while, and then suddenly jump up to his feet and look around with those sightless eyes as if to say, "What just happened?" Then he'd jump back up on the couch and go back to sleep as if nothing happened.

He also made us laugh with how he knew our routine just by the sounds of the house and what we were saying, and with how quickly he'd trot up the stairs to get his treat when we were going out. We'd be downstairs in the living room, getting our stuff together and getting ready to leave, and as soon as he'd hear the anti-burglary arm on the sliding patio door come down he'd be off like a shot, and we'd hear "thump-thump-thump-thump-thump!" as he went trotting up the stairs! And that was if we heard him at all - there were plenty of times we'd look around and ask, "Where's Buster?" only to look up and see him at the top of the stairs, looking down as if to say, "Well, where's my treat? What's taking you so long?"

That dog was a character in more ways than one, and he left an indelible mark on both our hearts that will always be there.

Two weeks after he passed I went down to the local tattoo parlor and got a tattoo of him on my chest right over my heart; that way I can look at him every day for the rest of my life until I meet him at Rainbow Bridge. I talk to him all the time, especially at night when I walk over to where his urn and picture are and tell him goodnight. That's become a nightly ritual with me, one that I've only missed once since Gina brought him home, and I won't miss it again. Ever.

It's been a long six weeks without my baby boy, but both of us have adapted. We both know that the separation is just temporary in the physical sense, and that Buster is with us in spirit all the time no matter where we are. And I feel especially close to him now that his face is on my chest, and I take comfort in that.

I also knew within a few days of his passing that I needed to have a Boston Terrier in my life. Not to replace Buster, to be sure - no dog could ever replace him - but because I love the breed and just need one in my life. I also knew that it was going to be a long time before I was ready - or so I thought.

Last week Gina showed me a picture of a Boston Terrier puppy she'd located in Louisiana, and at first I thought this was going to be just another picture of yet another dog since hardly a day goes by that she doesn't show me a picture of another dog she "has to have!" And this was before Buster passed, too!

But this time it was different. This time, when I looked at the picture of the week-old male Boston Terrier puppy, something was different. This wasn't just another Boston - this one was different. I couldn't put my finger on just what it was and I still can't, but within moments I knew - I just knew.

This one, the one the breeder had named "Cage," was OURS. I knew it as soon as I looked at the picture, and it nearly took my breath away.

So in late August we'll be welcoming Cage into our house, and to be honest I don't know who's more excited about it, me or Gina. (Okay, she is, but not by much!) Both of us are ready for it, a lot sooner than we thought we would be, and we're both happy that Harley, our Puggle, will finally have another dog that she can go out into the back yard and play with. She always wanted to play with Buster but never could - first because he couldn't get overly-excited because of his cataract surgery and then because he was blind - and now that she'll finally have another dog to play with, we're both very happy about it.

I'm just happy and excited about having another Boston Terrier in my life. You see, there's been a hole there in my heart for the past six weeks, one that can never be filled, but one that will be quite a bit smaller once Cage gets here. There will always be a hole in my heart that was once occupied by Buster and no dog will ever be able to fill it, and I'm sure that my baby boy knows that. He knows how much I love and miss him, how much I wish I could have him back, and how much he touched my life. He also knows why I need another Boston in my life - because of him and the love he gave me. He's the reason, and he knows it.

As do I.

I also have a feeling that he's the one who sent Cage to me because he knew how much I needed another Boston. Call it silly, I don't care, but that's how I feel.

I love you, baby boy, and I miss you. Thank you for all the love you gave me, and for all the love I'm about to be given because of you.

IHC